Sunday 12 October 2008

No Barbies in Berhampur



























We lived in a world sans Leo toys and Barbie dolls. A world when video-game parlors had not mushroomed in street corners, when Play-stations had not invaded our households, when TV's did not encroach the privacy of our bedrooms, when a solitary proud radio with huge round knobs adorned the drawing room. …. How did we live in this world? How did we engage ourselves after our homework?

Time then to press the rewind button.

The first toys, I recollect, were made of tin. Be it cars or trains they used to be activated with keys that had big ears. There was this tin soldier with a Pinnochio type nose who would beat the drums much to my glee. The monkey had two flat saucer shaped tin discs in his hands that would go chan chan chan chan when he would start clapping after being keyed up.

I fondly remember this monkey because on occasions when I would cry non stop after getting badly hurt, it used to be keyed up and I used to burst out laughing, much to the relief of the elders. After a spoonful of sugar mixed with Horlicks, I would be ready once again to take on the world.

All these toys had a very short life and in those days, middle-class budgets did not allow us the luxury of frequent replacements.

Girls used to buy plastic guddas and gudiyaas packed in transparent polythene sheets. The hi-fi ones had blue eyes that would roll up and down. “Yeh japaani gudiya hai”, the owner would proudly announce. When girls used to fight it would culminate in one of them saying, “Theek hai mein teri gudiyaa ki shaadi mein nahin atee.”

We also had a large collection of miniature rubber animals which used to come free with the packet of Binaca toothpaste that we used to buy every month from the grocery store at Bahapur market. This probably was as close we could get to our Discovery channel.

There were also a plethora of wooden toys. The more innovative and artistically endowed would buy puppets with strings attached and make them dance to hindi film tunes. I remember having a gudda and guddiyaa made of wood that would keep nodding their heads when touched delicately. At times when the wind would blow strongly or the fan would be at a high these dolls would start rolling their heads! The dolls day out would come with guddi parva, the annual toy festival when all the household toys would be artistically displayed.

Outdoor low cost innovative games were very much in vogue during the sixties. Rolling the cycle tyre after giving it a whack with a small stick was definitely one of my childhood favourites. Running after it and balancing it with the stick while simultaneously giving it the desired direction, used to be such great fun! Somehow parents never approved of it. I was repeatedly told that it was a bit of a let down watching a Convent educated boy displaying such poor taste. Needless to say the cycle tyre got a premature burial- a martyr to the middle class notions about what is good and what is bad.

Marbles were a great passion in our childhood days. It used to be called “baatee” in Oriya. They were generally white in colour with a couple of orange, red or green stripes running around the middle. We used to dig three small holes equidistant to each other in a straight line. And the game would start with a lot of competitive gusto. Hitting the opponents marble called for a lot of skill and precise finger work. The cute glass marbles came later. So jealously were they guarded that I used to sleep with them in my pockets!

The colourful Top or Lattoo was also great fun once you mastered the slightly difficult art of playing it. We first had to buy those colourful wooden tops of the right size and perfect balance. Then we had to go to a small black-smith shop in the by-lanes of Bijipur who had the expertise in making different types of iron tips for the latto. Some boys had developed awesome skills. They even had the expertise of spinning it straight on to their palms and then gradually transfer it to their finger tips! Unfortunately, after a few seasons, news reached the elders that somewhere some kid had lost his eye playing this game while one had died because of a wound from the rusted nail. So the tops too stopped spinning in our house and spiraled out our lives.

Then there was a game we invented on our own from empty cigarette packs. And what colourful packets we had during those days! Red and White, Scissors, Passing Show, Berkley’s, Canvenders, Four Squares, Capstan, Charminar, Panama… the list seems endless. My favourite packet was Passing Show. On the packet was printed the photograph of a smoking man wearing a dark hat. Its punch line probably was, “You can smile as you smoke.” Empty packets belonging to three or four players would be placed under a heap of loose soil inside a small square marked on the ground. Then with especially polished square tiles or flat stones you had to hit them out of the square and the packets would be all yours.

Ludo was a family must. On one side was the snakes and ladders while on the other side used to be the more traditional game of coming out of your square with a throw of six and then proceeding to complete a circle before getting into the safety of your home. I distinctly remember how Bata used to lure us by offering free ludo with Sandak- the brown coloured water-proof footwear! The ludo used to be printed on the inside of the cardboard box in which the sandak was packed.

With age we gradually grew out of them. Finally cricket and Table-Tennis remained my only passions. Flashes of childhood cigarette packet game or the game of marbles would come for a jiffy when you hit the stumps and appealed for the run-out and team mates would shout, “bachpan mein kanche bahut khela hai.” But childhood, once its slips through can never come back!

Today, when I look back I realize that one can have a complete childhood, full of interesting and innovative games, with or without costly toys.

No matter which way you look, way back in the sixties, we were “playboys” all right!
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21 comments:

Omkar said...

Over here, its not uncommon to drive 50 miles (yep, we r stuck in the fps system) for an evening party at a friend's.

Akin to your post, I often wonder to myself, how life must have been say in 1300 A.D, and I bet they must think of themselves as "modern", building Qutb Minar, Konark n such.

I digress. Forgot carrom board ;-) Getting that pink "goti". And was Bournvita the "opposite" of Horlicks? Some families blvd. in one and others swore by the other.

Ah, that cigarette packet game was "paykaa" (don't know if its Oriya, had a Telegu tinge to it).

Finally, CAPSTAN ;-) Reminds me of the sophomoric vulgar acronym and there was also had one when spelt backwards NATSPAC.

Faiyaz said...

Maza Aa raha hain, Kasam sey!

Writing in any form is indeed a 'CHILDS's PLAY' - Bayen Haath Ka 'KHEL' for Arun!

Nargis said...

Hi Arun....

How charmingly you've managed to pack all your 'playboy'ish memories into this one little decent blog :-}
Yeah, I do remember about Ludo... I guess those were the days of limited promotions as opposed to the 'buy one get one free' limitless ones of recent times. Hey, what about gilli danda- the desi Kirket? Or were you guys only playboys of the British Order ;-}

Tasneem said...

Nice write up, Arun.
In my 1st or 2nd Std I remember two toys which my eldest sister brought for me from one of her Orissi dance trips to Delhi.... I was so delighted and cherished them for a long long time.
One was a steel kitchen set and the other was a polished yellow wooden doll which contained many smaller dolls within it.
Arun, I agree with you, its amazing how simple things brought us so much of joy when we were little.
I must say, you have this knack of reminding us of long forgotten things which were actually an integral part of the lives of Indian kids born between 1955-1965.

arun bhatt said...

thanx hilu,faiyaz,nargis and tasneem.
Yes there were plenty more apart from carrom and gulli danda. there was chinese checkers, business/monopoly,ice-pice/chor police, dark room. we also used to make a lot of things out of paper apart from boats, kites, aeroplanes (which we used to fly even in the class-room and get punished), triangular flags for functions and caps...
I think those were the times when the creative really flourished.

aashu said...

from uor side,,,,we had these lovely dolls,,,closing their eyes and i remember reefats doll,,,in an american voice parroting--mammy i love u!!!!
then it was a full set of tiny kitchen basics all with gas chulha,,,n fridge,,,,not to mention,,,all sarees being converted to play ghar-ghar,,,tied arnd 2/3 chairs or more,,depended on how big the house was supposed to be!!!!
and then we used to hoard up on snacks,,,get up late at night,,,and have mid-night parties!!!!!!
the list can go on.....
arun i bet yr lovely family must be q enthralled with all ur musings...

Tasneem said...

Faiyaz, remember our class (4th or 5th Std) had collected money and bought a whole lot of indoor games stuff which we played in our free time? That is the time I learnt to play Chinese checker.
Ashu, I think the Reefat you are referring to is my cousin. Small world, eh?

aashu said...

Reefat Rasool???wow...ya,,,i had talked to her and her mom 2 yrs back,,,even she s married to a shippie...really small world!!!!

Tasneem said...

She is an RJ now based in Bhub. Doing well.

Faiyaz said...

Tas,
Any idea who was based in HongKong?
Reefat is Fida Rasool Uncles Daughter I suppose.

Yes I do remember we invested on board Games.
As a kid I loved the game of Monopoly. Guess What? The new version does not have Bank Notes - It's electronic Banking with credit Cards- Amazing!

Tasneem said...

Yes, you are right. Chachajan's daughter is Reefat and his son, Javed is based in HongKong. He works for Star TV and he is an internationally acclaimed DJ and Salsa dance expert there.

Faiyaz said...

Tas,
I thought so...Was a bit confused though, thanks for clarifying. I heard Reefat is doing wonders in BBSR too!

Tasneem said...

Yes, I believe so. Heard some of her recordings at Shehla's place. Pretty happening.

Naresh said...

Arun

You posting reminds me of "Jeetender's " film with Babita , where ' Gudda and Guddi ki Shadi is delineated in no small means !

The Song goes somewhat - Bol meri Guddi , Khayal tera kya hai ???

Stanley David said...

Arun's simple yet poignant narration of times gone by is so touching ....

60's Bachpan ke din bhi kya din the ...

payka, guli dnada, rounders, cycle wheels, dolls, tin toys whatever ... the other day a bunch of kids ata cyber cafe were playing the 2008 games --and I could hear shouts of:
Kill him, da, get him --shoot da, quick ....

Banhi Laha said...

Folks,read your writeups and I think we can bring back these childhood games and fun when we become granndparents(THERE IS STILL TIME).So let us be optimistic.Though you will be missing on the fights that we used to have on being defeated

Venu N said...

Gee whiz, that was one hell of a narration, Arun! You've kindled fond memories of our childhood hobbies which the present unfortunate generation knows not even an inkling of!
Yes, running after cycle tyres all along the vast space we had in our house was my favourite hobby too. When my grandpa tried to deride me, I told him that it was not possible to do the same with a car tyre (for better status?), so he chose to ignore me!
Batti / Golee and Lottu/ top were also my favourite games. I was pretty good at breaking the opponents top with a 'gaski'. It is indeed lamentable that those games have died out.
How come you forgot to mention kite-flying, and cutting the other guy's thread with 'manja'. I do find such stuff in Hyderabad these days, especailly during Sankaranthi.
I was pleasantly surprised to find that it is called 'manja' in Hyd too. Even Barracks is called Barkaas here.

aashu said...

Hey Tas,,,grt hearing abt REE/bro,,,i had no idea abt the RJ part,,,anyway,,,vimal,,,do send her an invite too.
all u guys going mushy on yr childhood games,,,,,,grow up!!as much as we like to vent our ire on the computer and the geeks who r slaves to it,,,,dearies we all fall into the same category.........
just see the outpourings here,,,its also packed with all the excitement u need....and this silly box,,,has got us all together age/distance no bar.
give me the comp any day,,,as i grow older ,,,,the kids will move away,,and however busy i may keep,,,,one click and u all r with me......
i think we r having the best of both the worlds!

arun bhatt said...

aashu
u have raised a very pertinent point. there is always a tendency to paint the past with a golden brush. was every thing so rosy, so romantic, so idyllic in the past? i think in many ways glorifying the past (beyond a certain point) or anticipating a great future is a reflection of not being at peace with the present. the right balance is crucial and i think your last line about having the best of both the worlds is really the right way of looking at life.

Tasneem said...

No, we are not dissatisfied with our present. It's just that now, all of a sudden we are meeting up with friends who have lived similiar childhoods, at a similiar time frame. The sharing of our long forgotten experiences has a unique flavour which all of us are savouring for the first time. It has nothing to do with the present or with reality. Let us indulge in the luxury of being transported to our blissful chilhood once in a way, through the most latest medium,our comps. At least for me,this blog is a real stress buster.

Vimal Parmar said...

As usual, too good man... too good. Keep it up!! Apart from marbles and all other games mentioned by you, my fav time pass activity would be setting up a mirror to divert light thro a movie film strip (just a few frames -hindi; Oriya.. whatever)and lens to throw up an image on a wall - Home Theater ;-) without music!!