Friday, 1 January 2010

FOR THOSE WHO CHERISH MEMORIES

After thirty six years I decided to rewind the clock. Last fortnight, I drove down memory lane to BAM - my first trip to this town after 1973.

Twenty years after my dad retired, twenty years of fighting a court case, twenty years after living on 50% of the pension that he ought to have got, my octogenarian dad had been informed that his service book had disappeared. No apologies, no regrets, no remorse just a matter-of-fact information conveyed with a casualness that only Indian bureaucracy is capable of, “Atey borso heyee gola kono kariba file-potro hoji gala.” After one year of following up the duplicate service book had been reconstructed and now my dad had been summoned to sign it in twenty places.

Just as we reached Khalikote college the tyres laid across the road were being lit up amidst shouts of zindabaads and murdabaads. The principal’s office had been ransacked, the administrative offices had been closed down and the main gate was crowded as one of the hunger strikers had fainted. The principal hid somewhere to avoid the wrath of the rampaging students. The babus followed suit. We could do nothing else but wait for the passions to cool down. What to do, in India patience is not an optional luxury it is a basic necessity.

That’s when I pushed open the half-closed gates of St. Vincent’s and peeped in.

The first problem when you revisit the past is always the issue of scale. In 1973 I was probably three foot three and everything about the school in my minds eye was huge. The class-rooms, the open spaces, the trees, the nursery class everything now looked much smaller. My first reaction was, "Hey, somebody shrunk my school."

I was soaking in the view when this garrulous lady began asking me as to what I was looking for.

“Nothing, just looking around” I said.

“Then you must be an old student” she said.

“ Yes”, I said. “Old. Very old indeed. Do you know Sister Rosalie? ”

“No. She had gone before I joined,” Sushanti said.

“You must meet the principal madam,” she insisted and proceeded to guide me to her office leaving me with no choice. Instinctively I asked, “Sushanti, are you Dharma’s daughter?”

Her face lit up. “How do you know?”, she asked.

"Just a guess", I said.

Sister Sudha, the principal is a kind lady. She enlightened me about the “new” management – the Mangalore based Little Flower of Bethany that took over in 1979. How it is more professional. How education runs in their genes. How they have expanded. How they have become bigger and better. How her intelligent students get over 90%.

“Is there any teacher of my generation?” I asked her.

She thought for a while and said, “Anima who used to teach Oriya retired a few years back. There is no one else from your generation”.

“Why did the nursery class change its character?” I asked. “And what happened to the piano?”

She knew nothing of the piano. The nursery hall is now used for Yoga she said. “It is very essential for overall health and mental agility of the students” There is a computer lab too, she added and I noted a pride in her voice.

After getting convinced that I was from Mars and she was from Venus, I went around the school and noted the disappearance of the See-Saw, Jungle-jim, Statue of St. Vincent. The entire playground has been cemented (cuts down the dust and makes children healthy). A new double storey wing has come up (It's necessary because during your time there were hardly 200 students)

I left school and went towards Dr. Firoz Ali’s residence. A three storey building now stands there. There is nothing imperial about it other than the name “Imperial College.”

Giri road too had changed beyond recognition. We spent some time in Hillpatna also where dad met his colleague.

It was really nice going back in time and reliving the moments of our golden era. A lot has changed but Berhampur still retains many of the elements of the sixties and early seventies.

Some day I hope to return for a longer trip. After all memories are priceless and as the ad-line goes- for every thing else there is MasterCard.
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21 comments:

Sreenu Babu said...

That a heart touching vivid account. I am able to particularly appreciate it because I had myself gone through that 'Mars and Venus' experience and had great difficulty digesting the changed scenario. That was indeed a piece that enabled me enjoy the refreshing experience of going down memory lane and what a timing...the the very first day of the NEW Year!!

HAPPY NEW YEAR MARSIANS!

Tasneem said...

AB!! Yaar, tum itna achchas kaise likh paate ho!
A very charming and poignant recount. I almost felt I was there experiencing all that you've written about.
Maybe someday, I'll go to my old school too.
It was painful to read about the apathetic attitude of the babus.Hope your Dad has managed to get all his pension arrears.

arun bhatt said...

Hi Sreenevas, good to know that Mars is well populated!!

Hi Tas,bheri bheri simble achha likhney kay liye achhe readers ki zaroorat hotee hey!!

Naresh said...

Ya Arun the school is shorn of the greenery , the One-handed Virgin Mary ( some Diego Maradonna had broken it while playing Soccer ), Jungle Jim and the other shabangs have been shifted to the sisters' parlour.

Looks more concrete than curricular ! The " Pijuli Gochchos" have been uprooted . Yet SVC and our Halcyon days !

Stanley David said...

One felt one was there, the way you described it --and the photos helped a lot to catch the of the present day St Vincent's.

sushil agarwal said...

Thanks a ton Arun for the lovely LIVE SHOW.I read your post and closed my eyes and believe me it was not 2D it was just 3D.A beautiful gift for the new year. Thanks at least one AMBO GOCHO is there and I remember coming to school early during the mango season to pluck a few

Enarkay said...

Jungle gym gone? I feel as if a part of me has been torn off. Thats where we had great fun. Lots of changes in the school but thats life. Badminton and Basketball seem to be popular. I wonder if they still play 'Kings' etc
The mention of the piano has stirred up some forgotten memories! All in all a great piece, as usual, from Arun

Seetha said...

Arun, what a great narrative of your trip down memory lane. I have not gone back to BAM since I left there in 1970. Your narrative has once again stirred up the desire to go there. Unfortunately every time I come to India, none of my siblings are available to accompany me there and I end up not going. I was just scanning some old pictures of my Dad, and now I really want to visit BAM. There are some people in the photos with my Dad, who I am not able to identify at all. Maybe I can post them here and see if anyone on the blog can recognize them.

arun bhatt said...

Naresh, Stan, Sushil, Enarkay,Seetha,thanks a ton for the appreciation. Memories are truly a priceless asset. Hope one day all can get together in BAM/GOPALPUR.

Sreenu Babu said...

Hi Sushil....As you mentioned about the early goers to pluck mangoes. That made me recall the black berry tree close to the old merry go round. Does anyone recall this one. That was one more incentive for the early birds...among whom was one occasional one. The Jungle Jim like Enarkay said was the lifeline in the school, I remember the several blows i got while playing the jungle Jim but our never lose heart spirit could turn off our love for JJ. Though, I left St.Vincents after 5th to join Central School. My love for SV sustained..which is why I got myself placed in Berhampur during 90-05 and got my two daughters study right there. It was great fulfillment and actualization dropping and my kids at SV. Justy missed Peter and Dharma.... Vimal and all of you are indeed doing a great job here keeping alive the commonly dear factor in our five decades of life time thus far.

sushil agarwal said...

Hope some of you can recall Sister JULIA singing n playing the piano......Kahan gayan wo din..

Nivedita Rath said...

This article is so touching, Arun...thanks for bringing back a lot of memories.Now I also wanna go and see the school,so bad!Another question,how is Dharma?Does anyone know?

arun bhatt said...

Thanks Nivedita. Dharma is OK though not able to move around. To qoute her daughter, "Chola-pheera koru pari nahanti." She lives close by and is able to oversee things.

Enarkay said...

Thanks a ton Sushil for reminding me! It was Sister Julia singing and playing the piano while the rest of us followed her that holds a special place in my memory.Wish someone could remember those songs/rhymes.Memory is hazy.

Vimal Parmar said...

Wow AB, kya likhte ho yaar... Good old memories - jungle jim, see-saw, the statue, a game of Kings during lunch break, Dharma, mangoes, fancy dress, parents day, sports day, sweets on birthdays, craft classes - two periods in a row, imposition, punishment, tuition, moral science, piano, baby class, singing ringing tree (Omkar will know what i am talking about), Sushil gets selected to go to Delhi, annual class photograph... I could go on and on... Thanx AB.
BTW Arun, hope your Dad's pension issue gets sorted out.

Omkar said...

Yes I do Vimal, we were supposed to have watched "The Tinder Box" that day and ended up watching "The Singing Ringing Tree" (which by the way ONLY sang (and rang), when there was "true" love in the air) ;-)

And "games" period? For a while, I lived for it.

Ah, Kings, if y'all get time, dig up my earlier post, about what happened to our batch boys, after a rough day of playing "Kings"!

Thx. Arun. Like Vimal sez, hope yr dad's pension issue gets sorted out.

The girls of our "daze", did not dress so conservatively, just a shirt for the top and plenty of legs, IIRC ;-)

Faiyaz said...

This is very well written Arun!
I was very touched when I reached the paragrah that had a mention of Imperial College - Reminded me of Both my house and the Three idiots! Anyways good to see that the structure is intact - Aall ijj Waill!

arun bhatt said...

you are all right folks!!!

Piano,
Singing ringing tree,
Kings,
Jungle-jim,
Dharma's daughter in the same place - very much like Rip Van Winkle's son,
Bahiyaa aal iz well, aal iz well!!


Give me some sunshine
give me some rain
give me another chance
i wanna grow up once again...

all your comments and past peeping really makes this write-up special.

Venu N said...

Hey Arun,
I got to read this scintillating post of yours just now---I was too darn busy getting adjusted to the culture shock here---more precisely the weather shock!

I share your aversion to the changes in the character of the school. I too vividly remember the Baby Class, the tree near the merry-go-round and see-saw, the Jungle Jim, et al.

Many things have changed in BAM. I did not want to see those changes when I last visited in Dec, 2006. All I visited was my uncle near the Gopalpur Gate on NH5, the varsity and the Gopalpur beach. Very honestly, I'd like to remember BAM as it was, and not as it is!

Nargis said...

Hi Arun.......

What a poignant blog! I was shocked to read that a three storeyed building stands where our house used to be. Ever since it was sold, although I've been to Bam an ample number of times I refuse to go anywhere near our house. I guess like Venu I'd like to remember BAM as it was and not as it is...!!
Btw....I scrolled through and read all your blogs. What can I say? How's your mom now? That was one of the most touching blogs I've ever read....

thelma/david/samuel said...

Yea, a very thot provoking account of SVC.Am sad that the jungle jim has dissappeared....Many an hour was spent near it.Incidentally, I taught in the class next to it...It was always dotted withbudding gymnasts!!!!
Thanx for the "Walk down Memory lane"
SVC is almost the same.Like a scene from an olde(!) movie...